Word to the Weary Mom
It’s a whispered plea for energy as a baby cries in the middle of the night. It’s the weary body in need of an extra dose of grace to make it through the midnight hours.
It’s a request to reveal the significance of the seemingly insignificant. It’s a need to see the purpose behind the apparently menial and never-ending tasks.
It’s a wounded heart elbow deep in soapy water seeking just a moment of peace in the midst of an otherwise chaotic life.
It’s the desperate prayer for more hours in the day to handle the career, the home, and the family.
For a weary mom, this is often the extent of her time with God. It has become a muttered request under her breath as she moves from one activity to another. It is a desire to spend time with Him mixed with the shame of not knowing how to make the time. If this sounds like you, please know that you are not alone.
Embrace your current season.
I remember well the days when I could spend an hour, maybe two, at my kitchen table with my Bible and journal. I could spend uninterrupted moments lost in a Beth Moore Bible study.
These days, the most time I have sitting in one place is during carpool. And, if I’m honest, I just lose myself in a game of Words with Friends and pretend there is not a screaming toddler in the backseat.
In-depth studies may not work for you right now. Choose a short devotional that can be read while the kids are eating breakfast. Or - don’t laugh - keep it in a basket in the bathroom. Find five minutes. Then, when you realize you do actually have five minutes, go for ten. You’ll find, if you make the effort, God will help reveal extra time in your day.
Take small bites.
Every January, people all over begin the read-through-the-Bible in a year thing. There is nothing wrong with this endeavor. I have done it myself. But, here is a potential problem with it. Depending on the season you are currently in, you may not have time or energy to read two and a half chapters every day. And, if you do, you probably won’t get much out of it. Then, guilt sets in. The last thing in the world a tired mama needs is guilt.
So, pick a book and read through it slowly. If you only have time to meditate on one verse – then just read one verse. Take that one verse with you throughout the day. You will be surprised at what God will reveal to you.
Learn the power of a Post-It note prayer.
Say it with me, “Post-It notes are our friends.” How many times have you told someone you would pray for them? Now, how many times have you actually prayed for that person? Let’s face it: the best of intentions get all tangled up in meal planning, errand running, church activities and life.
Right now, there is a Post-It note on my bathroom mirror with the name of a sweet friend battling ovarian cancer. Every morning, when I brush my teeth, there is her name reminding me to stop for a moment and pray. Several times, throughout the day, I go into the bathroom and there is that note.
Keep a pack of Post-It notes somewhere convenient and use them. Put them on the window over your sink and pray when you wash the dishes. Put them on a mirror. Put them on the monitor of your computer. You will be surprised how often you find yourself praying.
There will come a day when you are back in a position to devote hours to Bible study. But, for now, do not let guilt convince you that the little you feel capable of right now is not even worth it.
Use short devotions instead of long Bible studies. Take small, yet meaningful, bites of Scripture instead of large amounts that leave you overwhelmed. Use the power of the Post-It note prayer.
You will be amazed at how God will meet you where you are right now.
Written by Stacy Edwards