God wants you to be who you were created to be and do the work you were created to do.
Get away with me and you’ll recover your life . . .Learn the unforced rhythms of grace—Matthew 11:28-29
We’re all built by the same creator. And we’re built by him to “come home,” every so often. This coming home is integral to the lives we're meant to live. God’s built us to need and to receive, his loving care. He’s built us to be restored by him. (Psalm 23:1-6; Matthew 11:28).
Many men don't know how to come home. We’re each designed to do it uniquely, so it takes some discovery. Few of us do that. If we do discover how, though, and if we begin to come home regularly, we live in a condition of abundance. We get filled up—and are able to overflow onto others, onto spouses, children, friends, people in need. We are able to give, for we’ve first received. We’re able to love and serve as we were meant to. We’re able to be who we were created to be and to do the work we were created to do.
If we neglect the task of discovery, if we fail to learn how to come home, we operate instead in a condition of depletion. We tend to try to pull what we (think we) need from other people. We tend to try to take from them, rather than overflow onto them.
Okay, so what do we do?
Make a list of ten to twenty things—things you truly love doing. Avoid obligations or things you “love” because other people might think you’re cool for doing them. List things that move your heart, calm your heart, or make it beat fast. List things that restore you, excite you, connect you to God, or things that allow you to truly worship him in the doing. Once you have your list, commit to inserting your things generously into your daily, weekly, or monthly calendar.