Truth Hurts


We sometimes must confront people with truth, knowing that the truth will hurt. Ephesians 4:15 instructs us to speak the truth in love.

1 Samuel 3

The Lord speaks directly to Samuel, and all Israel recognizes Samuel as a prophet.


For all the glory of speaking directly with the Lord, Samuel is given a very difficult task: He must deliver to Eli a troubling message from the Lord. With a pure heart and nothing to gain or lose by the encounter, Samuel tells Eli the truth. We too must sometimes confront people with truth, knowing that the truth will hurt. Ephesians 4:15 instructs us to speak the truth in love. Speaking the truth without love is destructive. Samuel's example is a difficult one but a good one. Like Samuel, we can only fulfill such a task if our hearts are pure and we do not manipulate the situation for our own benefit.


Because we can know the truth and the truth can set us free, offer your praise to the Lord:

I will extol You, my God, O King;
And I will bless Your name forever and ever.
Every day I will bless You,
And I will praise Your name forever and ever.
Great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised;
And His greatness is unsearchable.
One generation shall praise Your works to another,
And shall declare Your mighty acts (Psalm 145:1-4).

Pray this confession to the Lord as you seek to keep your life free from sin:

"For a mere moment I have forsaken you,
But with great mercies I will gather you.
With a little wrath I hid My face from you for a moment;
But with everlasting kindness I will have mercy on you,"
Says the Lord, your Redeemer (Isaiah 54:7-8).

Confess any sins that the Holy Spirit brings to your mind.

Now pause to pray this affirmation to the Lord:

Behold, I stand at the door and knock.
If anyone hears My voice and opens the door,
I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me (Revelation 3:20).

As you make your requests known to the Lord, pray for:

  • Greater love for your family
  • The work of missions in North and South America
  • Whatever else is on your heart

Offer this closing prayer to the Lord:

May our Lord Jesus Christ Himself, and our God and Father, who has loved us and given us everlasting consolation and good hope by grace, comfort your hearts and establish you in every good word and work (2 Thessalonians 2:16-17).

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