How to Love Your Mother
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
As children, we showed Mom love with hugs, drawings, and cuddles. But now that we’re adults, some of us are uncertain how to demonstrate love to her. At times this is because the relationship is challenging. Meeting her needs as she ages can be emotionally draining and time-consuming. Or perhaps resentment over Perhaps resentments or past experiences of conflict, mistreatment, or rejection in childhood have created a barrier.
Yet despite past histories and present challenges, we cannot ignore the Bible’s command to honor our parents (Eph. 6:2). Let me suggest four ways to respect and love your mother regardless of what has happened in your relationship.
1. Love her patiently. There are no perfect mothers. We all make mistakes and carry emotional baggage that shapes our actions and responses. Just consider how patiently God deals with you, and do the same with your mom.
2. Treat her kindly. Rudeness only reveals our own imperfections and does nothing to benefit Mom or improve your relationship with her.
3. Act unselfishly. We’re called to follow Christ’s example of selfless service instead of seeking convenience or our own comfort.
4. Remember that love requires forgiveness. Holding a grudge not only poisons us; it also prevents a good relationship from developing.
Now, all this sounds impossible, and it is—apart from Christ living His life through you. He knows exactly how to love your mom. And He will guide and empower you to respond as He would, if you will yield control of your life to Him.