HIV FAQ: What about the Medical Treatment, Expenses, and Prescriptions?
This topic has received more questions than any other:
What is the extent of medical care involved in adopting a child with HIV?
Is affording the medication manageable?
Are you going broke on the cost of the meds?
How expensive are the medications? How often do you have to purchase them?
How often does your child have to go to the doctor?
How many medications is your child on?
Will they be on the same medications/amounts for their entire lives or will the types of medicine and amounts change as they grow and change?
This question comes up a lot in adoption, particularly special needs adoption: What about the costs? When a child is born to us, we can't foresee what medical expenses they'll have or when an ER trip will hit or how many times they'll have to see the doctor. We say yes to those uncertainties, not knowing if the expenses will run high or low or average.
We say yes because we deem our biological children to be worth it.
We say yes because they're "our flesh and blood."
We say yes because we'd never think of saying no.
It gets dicier once we're talking about adoption, especially in the early stages. Before you know a child who is waiting for a family, you can't see the humanity that comes before a diagnosis. Checklists on adoption agency forms ask which special needs you're open to. While my friend Amy Julia can write elegantly about using first-person language when speaking of Penny, her daughter with Down syndrome, it's a lot harder to put the child first and the diagnosis second when the adoption is still hypothetical, with the child feeling that way as well.
In adoption, we can say no.
And when we say yes, we have the opportunity to prepare more in advance, at least for the diagnoses known prior to the adoption.
It strikes me that these questions are actually coming from two different camps, so I will answer them in two ways. First, for those who are asking to know - out of curiosity or medical interest or adoption consideration - the bare bones details of the medication and treatment regimen, here's the answers:
- Doctor visits: We have a great pediatric infectious disease team at Duke. At first, we saw them once a month. Labs are looking so good now that it's every two months now. It will stretch longer as time goes on, first to every three months and then to every four months. In adulthood, it will likely be every six months.
- Lab tests: The main ones are CD4 counts (measures of how strong the immune system is: the higher, the better) and viral counts (measures of HIV in the blood: the lower, the better, with the goal to reach undetectable levels).
- Medications: Meds are given every 12 hours. In the morning, it's two half pills. In the evening, it's two half pills plus two capsules (which are the same med but two different quantities). So it's three medications given via four half pills and two capsules over a 24 hour period. At the orphanage, children either took their meds or received a beating, and no one taught our dear one how to swallow pills, so our child has the habit of chewing each pill. Dosages and medications will be adjusted as our child grows and develops.
- Costs: Over Thanksgiving, we had to pick up a refill. We talked with reps from our insurance company, with our pharmacist, and with a few other folks, making sure everything was in order. They all said it was. Come the day after Thanksgiving... nothing. The computerized insurance processing system at the pharmacy said our child wasn't insured. We had to pay out of pocket - though it was later determined that the insurance co. was at fault and we were reimbursed - a total of about $950 for a month's worth of medication. On a monthly basis, though, the costs are no different from any other prescription on our plan. In fact, insurance companies treat children who are adopted as if they were born biologically into the family: no conditions are considered pre-existing or exempt from coverage. It's as if our child was adopted in perfect health and only later contracted HIV. We are required by our insurance company to have the meds sent via a mail order specialty pharmacy, and they send three months worth at a time. Various state-led programs and pharmaceutical companies offer ways to reduce costs of HIV meds, but we haven't needed that help.
- Side effects: None, so far. One makes our precious one tired, but that one is given at nighttime, so it doesn't have any ill effects.
For those who are asking less about the logistics and more about the stress of all the medical stuff, it's not a big deal. Yes, medication is part of our routine. But it is now perfectly routine for us, not out of the ordinary or weird or anything like that.
Sure, managing HIV is part of our lives, but it's a small part.
And it's absolutely worth it.
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