God, Change My Marriage or Change Me



If your efforts to change your husband aren’t working, why not ask God to change you instead?

My efforts to change my husband weren’t working, so I asked God to change JJ for me!

God didn’t answer my prayers; instead, He showed me my criticism towards my husband only made JJ feel inadequate. JJ had started shutting down and becoming indifferent, and now I realized I was part of the problem.

JJ needed me to be supportive and encouraging. He needed my prayers to build him up not tear him down. So, I started asking God to change me. And He did!

First, He helped me notice things I appreciate about my man. God also helped me hold my tongue when JJ did something I didn't like or led in a way I didn't want to follow.

Yep, my marriage changing prayers became a me-changing prayer, instead!

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