Does Submission Equal Silence?


There are great biblical role models to follow when considering submission and your relationship to your parents.

Submission can be really, really tough. I get that. But I trust that God knows what He's doing when He urges us to submit to and honor our parents. 

Satan seems to recognize this same truth. He knows that God's parameters in the areas of submission and authority are for our own protection. As a result, he has plenty of lies to tell about this specific issue. 

One lie is that: "I only need to submit when I agree with my authority." That's a biggie! It is so important for you to recognize that you are called to submit to your parents even when you don't agree with their decisions. 

But does submission equal silence? 

That leads me to a second lie often told about submission—"I can't express my thoughts or opinions to my authority."

Let's read what Nancy and Dannah say about this one in Lies Young Women Believe

Submitting doesn't mean you can't think. In some instances you can even express your different ideas if you do it with a humble, respectful attitude. That doesn't give you the freedom to raise your voice, stomp around, or disobey if your authority does not change their mind (Lies Young Women Believe, 113). 

Being submissive doesn't mean that you become a mindless robot. It doesn't mean that you lose your voice. It doesn't mean that you never have the right to express another opinion. 

We can find plenty of examples of this fact in the Bible. Daniel politely asked the chief official for permission to change his diet in order to follow Jewish law in Daniel 1:8. His request was granted. Esther approached the king with respect and humility when she petitioned the king to spare the Jews (Esther 7:3–4). As a result, her people were spared. Paul disagreed with the leaders of the church council at Jerusalem in Acts 15. He didn't ignore or conceal his frustration with them but approached them with respect. As a result, they changed their position. 

These are great models to follow as you consider your relationships. When you disagree with those in authority, it's okay to speak up. But always approach them politely and with respect and humility.

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