Crunchtime At the Crossroads


Are you currently at a crossroads? Abandon your past methods of evaluation and instead talk with your Heavenly Father, Who actually knows what to do and sees all angles from every side.

What if you went on a road trip without a map or GPS, and every time you had to determine which way to turn or which road to take you just went with your gut? Which feels right? Which looks better to me?

What if this method of navigation went great? You arrived where you wanted to go and saw some amazing scenery along the way? Your random pattern worked.

What if it didn’t go well? You ended up lost, far off course, and didn’t care for the countryside, either.

After several trips like this, wouldn’t your future decisions be based on the success of your choices? But would this guarantee success or failure on your next trip? Of course not—because you’re the only pattern or constant here.

As Christian men, we often stand at a major crossroads in life and ask a lot of questions, all of which are based on a lack of knowledge about what lies ahead. We see the path. We imagine the consequences of a failed try. We also imagine the great blessings if we succeed. One of those mindsets is going to win. We might walk away from concern, fear, apathy, ignorance and other myriad possibilities spinning in our heads. We might press on, believing that success is worth the risk, hoping that blessing lies ahead.

Here’s the truth about this scenario: we often make our decision based on our  track record. How did my last trip go? Am I 50/50? 75/25? 25/75? We may think, “Well, I haven’t been too good at making these decisions, so I better just play it safe.” But the decision to go right or left, to move forward or stop, to express faith, to walk on to where the Lord is leading, should never be based on the past or even in the potential hope or curse of the future. Instead, it should be based on what God is saying today.

Operating on past patterns can be done outside of a relationship with God. Talking, listening, and responding to Him requires a current relationship.

Our evaluation at a crossroads is not about our track record, our past, or our future, but our present state with God. What is the Father saying? If He says go, standing still is the most unsafe move to make, even though it may feel illogical to leap. If He says stay, moving might look like faith to everyone, but it’s really just foolishness.

Are you at a crossroads now? Know you are about to walk up to one? Let’s abandon our past methods of evaluation. Let’s talk with our Father Who actually knows what to do and sees all angles from every side—past, present, and future.

You lead humble people 
to do what is right and to stay on your path. —Psalm 25:9 CEV

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