58 Practices of a Healthy Church Community

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Brandon Cox shares the 58 “one another” passages of the Bible that discuss how relationships within the body of Christ should work.

It’s impossible for a pastor or even a church staff to care for the spiritual, emotional, and social needs of every individual and family in a congregation. Expecting them to do so places an unscriptural and undue burden on them and creates unrealistic and bound-to-be-unmet expectations in the minds of church members. I mentioned this in a post I wrote previously about how I’m sorry when I let people down. In that post, I raised a question. Who then cares for the individuals within a church family? And I answered it. “The individuals do.”

The New Testament is stuffed with pertinent verses about how relationships within the body of Christ should work. We often refer to these as the “one another” passages of the Bible. According to Carl George, there are at least 58 of these “one another” challenges in the New Testament. Just read through them…

  1. “…Be at peace with each other.” (Mark 9:50)
  2. “…Wash one another’s feet.” (John 13:14)
  3. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34)
  4. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34)
  5. “…Love one another…” (John 13:35)
  6. “…Love one another…” (John 15:12)
  7. “…Love one another” (John 15:17)
  8. “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love…” (Romans 12:10)
  9. “…Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:10)
  10. “Live in harmony with one another…” (Romans 12:16)
  11. “…Love one another…” (Romans 13:8)
  12. “…Stop passing judgment on one another.” (Romans 14:13)
  13. “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you…” (Romans 15:7)
  14. “…Instruct one another.” (Romans 15:14)
  15. “Greet one another with a holy kiss…” (Romans 16:16)
  16. “…When you come together to eat, wait for each other.” (I Cor. 11:33)
  17. “…Have equal concern for each other.” (I Corinthians 12:25)
  18. “…Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (I Corinthians 16:20)
  19. “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (II Corinthians 13:12)
  20. “…Serve one another in love.” (Galatians 5:13)
  21. “If you keep on biting and devouring each other…you will be destroyed by each other.” (Galatians 5:15)
  22. “Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.” (Galatians 5:26)
  23. “Carry each other’s burdens…” (Galatians 6:2)
  24. “…Be patient, bearing with one another in love.” (Ephesians 4:2)
  25. “Be kind and compassionate to one another…” (Ephesians 4:32)
  26. “…Forgiving each other…” (Ephesians 4:32)
  27. “Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs.” (Ephesians 5:19)
  28. “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” (Ephesians 5:21)
  29. “…In humility consider others better than yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)30. “Do not lie to each other…” (Colossians 3:9)
  30. “Bear with each other…” (Colossians 3:13)
  31. “…Forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.” (Colossians 3:13)
  32. “Teach…[one another]” (Colossians 3:16)
  33. “…Admonish one another (Colossians 3:16)
  34. “…Make your love increase and overflow for each other.” (I Thessalonians 3:12)
  35. “…Love each other.” (I Thessalonians 4:9)
  36. “…Encourage each other…”(I Thessalonians 4:18)
  37. “…Encourage each other…” I Thessalonians 5:11)
  38. “…Build each other up…” (I Thessalonians 5:11)
  39. “Encourage one another daily…” Hebrews 3:13)
  40. “…Spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” (Hebrews 10:24)
  41. “…Encourage one another.” (Hebrews 10:25)
  42. “…Do not slander one another.” (James 4:11)
  43. “Don’t grumble against each other…” (James 5:9)
  44. “Confess your sins to each other…” (James 5:16)
  45. “…Pray for each other.” (James 5:16)
  46. “…Love one another deeply, from the heart.” (I Peter 3:8)
  47. “…Live in harmony with one another…” (I Peter 3:8)
  48. “…Love each other deeply…” (I Peter 4:8)
  49. “Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.” (I Peter 4:9)
  50. “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others…” (I Peter 4:10)
  51. “…Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another…”(I Peter 5:5)
  52. “Greet one another with a kiss of love.” (I Peter 5:14)
  53. “…Love one another.” (I John 3:11)
  54. “…Love one another.” (I John 3:23)
  55. “…Love one another.” (I John 4:7)
  56. “…Love one another.” (I John 4:11)
  57. “…Love one another.” (I John 4:12)
  58. “…Love one another.” (II John 5)

As I said in the previous post, new believers need the care and leadership of others within the church, but as a believer grows, they begin to “own the mission” of “being the church” (or at least this is the expected path of growth and progress). Just imagine with me for a second what it would look like for a Spirit-filled church to practice even half of the one another’s on a consistent basis.

And how? How can people care for others at this level when they only see each other at church on Sunday? And that is part of the problem! We often never move beyond spectator status in the weekend service. We need to go deeper with God and with each other. I think the church becomes family as we get closer in proximity to each other, do life with each other, and relate to each other beyond Sunday’s service.

  • At the weekend gathering, we practice the one another’s very briefly and with many people.
  • In small groups, we practice the one another’s more in depth, with fewer people, and outside the service and even the group meeting.
  • One-on-one, over coffee, playing golf, or serving in a soup line with close friends, we practice the one another’s even more in depth with just one or two people.

It is the role of church leaders to try to create a church structure that opens up the capacity for the one another’s to happen, but ministry leaders can only do so much. The whole body, however, when it is fitly framed together, grows up into a mature family.

Go love one another deeply, from the heart. (It’s #46.)

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