5 Tips For Amateur Prayers -- People Like me
Lord, teach us to pray… (Luke 11:1)
I don’t know about you, but I often feel like the disciples. I am still learning to pray. The fact is, I have more knowledge of prayer than I have substance and practice of prayer.
Just being honest. But, I do have some suggestions.
Here are five suggestions for amateur prayers – like me:
1. Be respectful
You’re talking to the Creator, God. He is worthy of all our praise. He’s the Holy Father. He puts stars in the sky. At the same time, He paints the belly of a Lady Bug. Never take for granted the privilege of prayer.
2. Be yourself
Along with being respectful, it is important to be who you are. Don’t attempt to make your words pretty as much as you attempt to make your heart pure. Just as you want your children to be respectful, yet still be themselves, I am convinced God wants that for His children. We are told to call Him “Daddy” (Abba). He wants us to fall in the comfy chair of home in His presence.
3. Be honest
God knows already, yet He loves to hear His children talk – just like we do as parents. He wants to know what’s on our mind. We can tell Him if we are angry and still be respectful. Speak truthful when talking to God.
4. Be open to His voice
Spend intentional time listening – with your Bible open. God most often speaks through the already written Word. But He also speaks through the still small voice like the gentle breeze. Over time, and with lots of practice, you’ll begin to know and hear His voice.
5. Be consistent
Pray as much as you want and need God’s involvement in your life. How much is that? For me, it’s fairly constant. I pray far less than the need I have for Him. Have a daily routine. Start a prayer list. Do it daily – but mostly, do it as a part of lifestyle more than a part of routine. Prayer is part of a relationship.
And He’s always with you, so take advantage of the closeness you can have through Christ. If you’re sitting at a stop light, pray. If you think of a friend, pray. If you begin to worry, pray. It can be a paragraph, sentence or a couple words. (I’ve prayed “Help me, God!” many times.)
Don’t over-complicate it. Just pray. Talk to God. What a privilege I can encourage you in this way (Hebrews 4:16).
Of course, all this begins with a belief in Christ as your Savior. This is what makes you His child – a family member. Prayer is ultimately part of a relationship. If you’ve never believed in the One who lived, died and rose again three days later – begin there. He loves you – just as you are now – and wants you to know Him!