Communication isn’t easy. If it were, we wouldn’t have very many conflicts with each other. However, we all have problems communicating at times. We might use inflammatory words, a harsh tone of voice, or body language that sets off another person. We might have communication problems by accident, such as misinterpreting a statement. On the other hand, they may be intentional, such as giving the silent treatment. The key to effectively communicating and resolving conflicts is learning how to separate the problem from the person. Today’s post shows you how.

"Back to the Basics: Communication 101" by Dr. Gary and Barb Rosberg

Pray
Jesus, You know everything about me and about my spouse. Help us learn how to separate the problem from the person when conflict arises. Help us learn how to communicate in real and helpful ways so we can strengthen our relationship and quickly resolve our conflicts.

Reflect
What are my biggest struggles with communication? How can I improve?

Respond
Use the tips shared in this post to get the most out of communication for conflict resolution.

Good communication skills include both talking and listening, as well as using the right body language and appropriate tone of voice. These skills also include evaluating the words you use in a conversation, as well as being considerate of the other person. Your words can be full of hate and wrath, or they can be tempered with understanding, love, and grace. Ultimately, your words can either tear apart or strengthen your relationship. Our next post will help you figure out how to communicate according to the Word of God.