We don’t have to look very far in this world to find conflict—we see it on the news or read about it online. As Christians, we are called to live as strangers in this world, and we are not to do things the way the world does them. Instead, we are to honor and glorify God in everything we do. This includes the way we handle conflict. As we conclude this series, consider how you’ll get along with others in a way that points to God’s great gifts of forgiveness and grace. Today’s message explains how to manage your expectations so that you can more easily resolve the conflicts that will inevitably come into your life.

"Why Can’t We All Get Along?" by Dr. James Merritt

Pray
God, I know that real faith handles conflict, so I am willing to surrender all my conflicts to You. You know what to do with them. Please show me what You want me to do.

Reflect
Has there ever been a time in my life when I was closer to God than I am right now? What has changed?

Respond
The key to resolving conflict is letting go of selfish attitudes. Work on emptying yourself of selfishness, and instead fill yourself with God and focus on the cross.

There are some very important elements to consider when it comes to effective communication and conflict resolution: listening and understanding, practicing forgiveness and grace, and focusing on Christ instead of on yourself. When you intentionally practice these elements in your relationships, you will find more peace and less misunderstanding. However, because we are imperfect beings, conflicts will continue to arise. This doesn’t mean you are failing. It means that you need to keep persevering, with your eyes on the cross, to make sure your relationships reflect more of Christ and less of yourself. Prayer and Bible study will help you on this path. Continue working on your communication skills and lovingly resolve problems, conflicts, and misunderstandings with the people in your life. Each time you do, you will bring glory to God by being a willing vessel for His mercy, grace, and forgiveness.